Saturday, August 20, 2005

The difference between real friends and guys who want to use you

1)Guys who want to use you are always there for you, night or day, and call you all the time.

Real friends sometimes go away for a while, but eventually come back. Their words sustain you through the times when no one is there.

2)Guys who want to use you understand you in uncanny ways. With them, you can share your inmost thoughts and feelings, your bad poetry, and your deep dark dirty secrets.

Real friends don’t always understand you. You are sometimes embarrassed to show them the things you’ve thought or written, because they will give you honest feedback. You hold back some of your darkest secrets, because they have a high opinion of you, and you don’t want to lose their esteem. They don’t always get you. They don't always agree with what you do, but they always find a way to take your side.

3)Guys who want to use you inspire you. They fill your thoughts and dreams, and give you energy and drive that gets you through your day.

Well I was going to counter that one, but I'm not sure you can't find inspiration and love in the same place. I'd rather not get that cynical, yet...

2 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is kinda twisted?! But is that the point.....

9:15 PM  
Blogger Kim said...

No, I didn't mean for it to sound twisted. My point was just that some guys act like your very best friend but it's not because they really care, it's because they want something. Relief from loneliness, sex, a person to blame their problems on, whatever! The people who really care about you show their love in subtler ways, but expect nothing in return. Sorry, it was kind of a downer blog entry.

11:48 PM  

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